I attended a speech this week at the Indiana State SHRM that really made me think about something. I have a lot of experience sitting across from senior level executives, and truth be told, the levels of their leadership varied quite a bit. I have seen the best and the worst.
At the speech, the presenter, said "don't focus on being right all of the time, because every time you are right, you have to make someone else a loser, and nobody wants to feel like a loser". He also did a wonderful job of tying this into your personal life. If, perhaps, you are married and you always have to be "right" to prove something to your spouse, like that you are smarter than them, what you are really doing is making them feel like the loser; and this can really wear them down over time.
So when I thought back to the many leaders I have met over the years, in comparison to this little tid-bit, I had a small Ah-Ha moment. It got me thinking about how leaders who focus more on "always having the RIGHT answer" instead of focusing on "leading" always had workforces who were less engaged. Less engaged workers mean higher turnover, lower profits and unhappy customers. There is nothing "right" about that and it all starts with leadership.
We have all seen them. The type of leader who doesn't want ideas, who doesn't want input, who micromanages, who "tells" you what to do, and of course the leader who is infinitely "smarter" than you. They have to prove their wisdom to you, they have to show you who is in charge. You know the type.
Now compare that to a "servant leader" who coaches you to the answers...your answers. Who lets you find your way through success and failure, who supports you along the way, but also keeps you in the boundaries of whats acceptable. They do also keep you accountable but more so accountable to yourself and to the values of the organization. It makes you work harder, it makes you more engaged.
And after all, thats what leadership is all about...leading instead of "always being right".

















